Reckless remark in couple

Not boringly, maybe you will see politicians who makes a reckless remark through periodic media. Why say that! No one should! Why??

 

No matter how much they have said good things, suddenly say something like bomb for sensitive problems. for example, Dokdo problems, Sexual slavery victims problems, pro-Japanese problems, etc.. People say to them 'Please do not say like that' but it repeats shortly thereafter. There are words people don't want to hear. 

 

 

There are words that should not be said even between a couple. Everyone knows the guidelines to say 'I love you' often. But in fact, more effective language habits are different. What's more impacting than'I love you' that you haven't said yet is the'reckless words' that you have already said.

 

What is reckless? It's different for each person, so it's hard to say. It is certain that we will know soon after we are married. If you see her react more violently to certain specific words than ever before, then the words you just said are reckless.

 

The problem is not recognizing this or saying it again (although it has been recognized). Especially if you want to give this impact again (for victory?) you will take this 'word' out again. Now, reckless word becomes 'rockness'. In the meantime, the 'I love you' that you told will collapse. It collapses even by one impact.

 

the priority of Caring for and loving the other person's is 'not to say reckless rockness again'.

 

Remember, in many cases, this'meaning' is relative. Words and expressions that have no objection to me at all can be fatal to the other person. This is because the meaning of language is formed differently in each life. For me, 'get off' is a mischievous word and may be a witty expression of 'stop'. However, it can be felt as a lethal character blasphemy for the opponent. After all, the feeling that the word gives rather than the essential meaning of the word creates a misunderstanding. It would be great if you could explain and understand each other. But our emotions reject it. that's the 'reckless word'.

 

Even a word that everyone can think of positively is a bad for some. For example, some people do not want to hear that they are cute. Rather than explaining the essential meaning, it is wise to designate it as 'forbidden'.

And if there is a misunderstanding, you should inform the other person.

Honey I don't want to hear that expression!

If you don't tell it, they may not know forever.