Open your mind to her

Here's an excerpt from an article written by a father to his son in the Huffington Post.

Marriage is about opening your heart to the point where you can get hurt.

It was one of the most sympathetic words of his story about marriage. Through marriage, I began to remove the shield that was protecting me. At the same time, wounds may occur little by little, but it is inevitable and should not be avoided. Thanks to this, I often see myself that even I have forgotten or have not recognized.

'Honey. I watched you...' when my wife starts talking

'Oh, what else were you looking at?' I also thought about it.

But these days, I have changed my mind.

'Oh, there's someone who looks at me quietly, I'll show myself in front of her'

If you take off the shells one by one, you will be able to live with only your true self. 

Among the wonderful words of a Korean singer about his life partner,

Marry the person you will most like you when you are with him. Meet someone who can show you the way you are, just as comfortable as you are, without decorating or pretending. The play will end someday. 

 

 

You may need some acting on your date. However, if your marriage becomes a play, you can protect your lifestyle, but you will never experience the'self-discovery' you get through your partner. Active involvement with each other can sometimes hurt. But without it, marriage would be meeningless that.